To Know and Not to Do Is Not to Know

Written by Posted On Monday, 15 December 2025 04:30

My guess is that if you have been in sales for more than 24 hours, you have already heard that you don’t have a prospect if they are not ready, willing, and able to purchase a home. You have a suspect. 

The reason this is included in this series of ‘lessons’ is that too few sales agents seem to understand how important each of the three qualifications is.

Obviously, “able” means “can afford it and can prove it." It also means they can make the buying decision without third-party approval. If they need someone else, say a parent, to approve their buying decision, they are, in fact, not able to buy. This is the easiest of the three ‘musts” to determine. They either qualify for a home in the price range they can pay, or they don’t.

What does “Ready” mean? This means they are motivated to make a decision to buy now. They are not looking for something to purchase in 6 months. They are ready now.

"Willing" means they are willing to make a purchase decision if they see what they want and can afford it. These prospects ask questions, have objections, and need your help. They are willing to spend time looking at homes, and may find some they like, but are not willing to make an offer because there is no urgency to make one. This is the group that can afford the home, will spend weeks looking at homes, and then decide to wait.  Just because they are approved for a mortgage does not mean they will buy.

These are important lessons, not just to know, but to understand how they apply. Here is how I learned them, then learned how to apply them.

Just out of college, I needed a job, but I wanted one that would teach me how to sell. I knew I would need this skill somewhere along the line, and I did not have the sales experience I needed. For 30 months I  Baby Butler, a safety feeding table and safety crib.

It did not take me long to learn what “not ready" meant.

My prospects were expectant first-time mothers who used a self-addressed stamped postcard to request a free Dr. Spock baby book. I set up an appointment to deliver the book and show a baby safety film. The film showed the danger of high chairs and the safety features of my products.

When I made an in-home presentation to a couple who could afford the product, needed baby furniture, but were not willing to purchase it from me, I learned what “willing’ meant. I also learned that of the three: ready, willing, and able, ‘willing’ was the one qualification I could control, and that if the spouse was only in early pregnancy, they were not quite ‘ready’ to buy yet. 

The lesson: It’s easy to determine whether they are financially able, and if you are a good qualifier, you can quickly gauge their ‘ready’ temperature. But for them to be willing to make a buying decision today or soon, requires careful attention to the homes you show. Even then, urgency plays an important role. Maybe they are ready, but are not ready to buy something they don't like. 

For those of you who quickly run out of 'saleable' inventory, I have a suggestion. Put your resistance aside, if it's there, and show them a new construction home in the price range they are shopping. You will be surprised how many of your resale shoppers would prefer a new home and make adjustments to live in one. 

Next time you have a minute to look in the mirror, ask yourself honestly how you are doing with understanding and applying the ready, willing, and able conditions that so affect your commissions.

Then ask for the help you know you need. You will be glad you did. Remember, to learn and not to do, is not to know.

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David Fletcher, NHCB

David Fletcher, a retired Realtor, spent his entire 25-year career recruiting, training, and supervising Realtors to serve as full-time onsite agents for more than 50 communities listed by Fletcher to sell and market the builder/developers communities. His teams sold more than $3 billion in new homes and condominium inventory, mostly on the west coast of Florida. More than 6,000 Realtors have taken the course he wrote to show them how he did it. His real estate career began in St. Petersburg, FL, when the developer-client of his public relations firm purchased his company and named him Vice President of the American Housing and Development Corporation building Bay Island, the waterfront community in South Pasadena, FL, where he served for three years before opening his real estate brokerage specialing in new construction. Along the way, Fletcher wrote Condominium Sales and Listings, 226 pgs, was a featured speaker at a National Association of Realtors convention, Chaired the Sale and Marketing Council for the Florida Home Builders Association, and was given a key to the city of St. Petersburg by its Mayor, for his work on the city's economic development council.

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